Wednesday, January 11, 2012

In which I interview at LSU-New Orleans (Part 1)

I squirmed in my seat. My borrowed suit jacket hung over the headrest of the passenger seat allowing me a greater range of motion, but my pencil skirt and black pumps were not ideal driving attire. I drummed my fingers on the steering wheel to the beat of the most tolerable song I could find on the radio. The early morning sun beamed through voluminous clouds, reflecting off the lake beneath the bridge. The morning had started overcast and dreary, but I took the parting clouds as a sign of a promising future and a successful day. My blue Mustang and I were headed to New Orleans for my first medical school interview.

I feared rush-hour traffic on that plate of linguine New Orleans calls an interstate system, so I left my house in Hammond at the crack of dawn.  As it turned out, there was very little traffic, so I ended up arriving at my destination nearly an hour early. If there was anything I feared more than traffic, it was the task of trying not to look awkward for forty-five whole minutes.

I maneuvered my way through the parking garage, construction, and endless hallways and found myself in a Starbucks right outside the admissions office. Many thanks to the kind stranger who took pity on a poor interviewee and helped me find my way. I bought a tall hazelnut latte, sat down at a table by myself, and Operation: Look Casual commenced. First order of business, pull out my cellphone and text my mom. No one else has to know I’m texting my mom, I just have to look busy with a phone. My mom and I have a nice chat. She tells me she’s happy my drive was uneventful and wishes me good luck on my interview. I successfully used up three minutes. I pat myself on the back, metaphorically speaking.
I start running through interview questions in my head; Why do I want to be a doctor? (Can’t say “helping people,” that’s too cliché.) Why do I want to go to this medical school? (Uhh….it’s cheap). What is professionalism? (Don’t say “wearing suits.” The goal here is to appear deep and intellectual.) What would you do if you don’t get in? (Cry.) Why should we want you, anyway? (I can knit and bake bread. Really good bread). My head started spinning with concocted questions and contrived answers, so I turned my attention back to my latte.

 I took a long, slow sip like the ones you’d see in a commercial for some overpriced Belgian coffee or the slow-motion scene of some romantic comedy (“Oh, look at the way she sips her coffee! Every little thing about her makes me fall more in love….”) I checked the time on my phone – I was ten minutes into Operation: Look Casual. I did my best to blend in with the other people milling about. After all, I told myself, I could be one of them! Look at those medical students! Why, the only thing separating me from them is my suit! Oh, and my lack of back-pack, stacks of flashcards, venti black coffee, and dark circles under my eyes.  But basically, we’re exactly alike!  I noticed another suit sitting by himself at a table across the room. The only thing on his table besides a tall coffee was a cell phone. He checked the time. He was definitely another interviewee.

Moments later The Suit was standing by my table. “Hey, are you here interviewing, too?” (Gasp. How could he tell?) “Do you mind if I sit down? My name’s Michael.” I told him he was welcome to sit and introduced myself. Having someone else to talk to would definitely help me not look too awkward while waiting for the interview process to begin. I was running out of ways to look at my phone and sip my coffee (Slow sip while checking phone; hold coffee cup while gazing contemplatively out of window;  leave phone on table and absentmindedly check time; rinse, repeat).  

Well that was quite a dry spell!

Hello again! Let's fast forward a year and a half, shall we?

I came home from Malawi, completed three semester of Millsaps, took the MCAT, applied to medical school, applied for a Fulbright scholarship, was accepted to medical school, and am about to start my last semester of college. I'm graduating in five months! Perhaps now I can start telling stories that actually have to do with becoming a doctor. :)

Monday, July 26, 2010

July 26 - Last day at "home"

Well, I was cooking dinner, but the power went out, so I decided to take this moment to journal.  I CANNOT believe that this is my last night here.  I don't want to leave!  I feel like I've finally really gotten settled and really found my place here. At the same time, I really do want to go home. I just want to know that I'm coming back here!

I think it's going to be easier to leave now, since Jayme and Danielle are gone, but I have so many friends here that I will miss terribly.  At least most of them have Facebook. :)

I am just about all packed, I've taken a shower, and I've charged my iPod, so I'm ready to go! (I just have to find my heart. Malawi seems to have stolen it.)

This morning at the nursery, Mwawi was helping me figure out my ride to the airport, and Zuze said, "She's not leaving tomorrow - I'm going to steal her passport." 

This morning, while we were at the nursery, Mike all of a sudden left for the main office.  When he came back, I asked him what he had needed to do there, and he said, "I went to talk to Feneck to make sure everything was set up for your ride to the airport tomorrow." I told you he was a good friend! :)

I am really hoping the power will come back on soon.  I'm getting hungry!  Mike and I are making pizzas (without cheese.) Should be pretty good anyway, if the power comes back on!

(Later)
Well, the power did come back on and we were able to bake our pizzas.  I made an alfredo sauce for mine and it was almost like having cheese. It was good!  After dinner, we just hung out, talked, and washed dishes.  Pretty chill. :)

Now we're watching Big Brother with Fred and Mark. BB is the most boring, overrated thing ever, but Fred, Mark, and Laita love it and watch it all the time.  Let's just say I won't miss it when I leave.

Laita just called me into her room and gave me a chitenje! It's one of the really nice, expensive ones and it's not like one I already have. It's tan with black pots on it. It's really cool and I almost cried when she gave it to me. Gah, I don't want to leave!

I have dough in the kitchen to make cinnamon rolls in the morning. It will be my last breakfast. :(

(Later still)
I'm about to go to bed for the last time here in my Malawi home.  The cinnamon rolls are out of the oven and I got off the phone with Mom a little while ago.  She told me to tell Fred (and Laita, if she were awake) thank you for taking care of me while I was here.  I did, and Fred said, "Tell her thank you for letting you come! And tell your parents thank you for raising such a beautiful and well-mannered daughter. I'm so proud of you, Casey. You have to come back!" Then he hugged me and I almost cried again. I hate this!

Sunday, July 25, 2010

July 25 - Last Sunday

I don't like how many "lasts" I've been having lately.  Today was my last Sunday here in Malawi and my last time to worship with the believers at Flood.  It was a really good sermon, all about how God wants to partner with ordinary people and how the way we begin to understand God's plan is by devoting ourselves to prayer.  I wish Danielle could have been there to see her legacy of being a prayer warrior being carried on. 

After church, Annie and I came back home and just relaxed. We both needed a day off. :) We made popcorn and watched movies, I knitted, we started dinner (spaghetti sauce,) etc. I've had a good time getting to know her better now that Jayme and Jenna are gone.  She is a sweet person.

Dinner was good! We had spaghetti sauce with penne, fresh bread, and brownies.  It was so much better than my fried rice flop last night.  :P  Tomorrow night we're making pizza with leftover spaghetti sauce, though it may turn out to just be sauce and bread, judging by the availability of toppings around here. We'll see.

Tomorrow Annie and I (and maybe Mike) are going to the nursery for my last full day. That's insane!

Saturday, July 24, 2010

July 24 - Volunteers from Afar

I'm not liking how close these dates are getting to the 27th.  I am so excited to go home, I just wish going home didn't mean leaving Malawi.

I was supposed to go on some home visits with the group from AZ today, but I think they forgot that I was going with them, because they never came to pick me up.  So I just hung out at the nursery all morning.  A group from England was passing through today, so I got to show them the ropes.  It was so cool to not be the "new guy" at the nursery.  Even Mwawi said of me, "She's not a visitor. She works here." I was so flattered!  It was very weird how possessive I felt about all the babies when the girls were playing with them and feeding them.  These new volunteers didn't know my babies' personalities, little quirks and habits, stories, likes and dislikes, even their names most of the time.  I caught myself feeling a little frustrated, but then remembered that, five weeks ago, I was exactly the same as they.  It also made me realize just how far I've come in just five weeks. 
Babies everywhere! (picture by Annie)

When we were making popcorn tonight, Annie and I were talking about our experiences on this trip and how we've changed.  She told me that before this trip, she was basically agnostic.  She believed in God, but just as a higher, guiding force.  Now, she said, she sees God everywhere and in everything! She said she is going to take all of this back with her to Sweden and wants to find a church back home.  She asked to come to the Flood with me tomorrow. Isn't that AWESOME?

We had a nice chat with Fred again tonight.  This time it was about controlling your temper and the difference between anger and temper.  He comes up with these questions and directs them to me and takes my word as authority on the subject.  It's really cool!  Fred said how much he's going to miss me when I leave and how I have to come back.  He also brought up our space travel conversation again. :)

Friday, July 23, 2010

July 23 - Danielle and Jenna leave (and I carry four babies at once)

This morning I had to say goodbye to Jenna and Danielle. :( I was over at the nursery in time for devotion and got to hear Jenna and Danielle's goodbye speeches as well as Mwawi and Daniel's responses.  Tears were shed.  Jenna spent some special cuddle time with Jese (her favorite :) ) and Danielle hugged on all the babies.  I finally held four babies at once!  I had Jese and Jestina in chitenjes and Shadreck and Misheck in my arms.  Danielle said I was ready for quadruplets. Haha, we'll see about that.
Four babies at once! :)
Roomies and twins. :)

I hugged Jenna and Danielle bye and more tears were shed.  After they left, Annie and I stayed around the nursery.  Annie wanted to cuddle "her baby" (Wanangwa) and I fed Jestina and then took her outside for sunshine and helped Anna with laundry.  Lots of laundry.  It was great hanging out with Anna and getting to talk to her.  She asked me what I was studying in school, if I was coming back to Malawi, and told me how much she hated saying good bye to friends.  A little while later, Annie came out to join us.  She and I started talking about dinner plans, now that it was just the three of us at the house.  Anna asked me when and where I learned to cook, etc, and then said, "I think you should just cook enough for Mike for the rest of his stay and he can keep it in the fridge." I told her that I wasn't quite able to prepare a month's worth of food and that I was sure Mike would be fine.  I think she is actually worried about him. :)

After hanging out at the nursery for awhile, Annie and I walked to Crossroads to use the internet and buy some groceries.  When we got back home, we reorganized and consolidated all of the food in the cabinets, now that Jayme, Jenna, and Gerda are gone.  There were so many duplicates of things.  We had eight jars of peanut butter, three jars of honey, four bags of flour, etc.  It's all organized now tho!  After that, I felt like I was nesting - I organized all the bags of medicine and toiletries that people have left, cleaned my room, organized my closet - I was crazy!  It's nice to have it all done, though.
So much food!

Tonight, Mike, Annie, and I went to Mama Mia's for dinner. It was a little pricey, but SO good.  It was cool to go to a nice, sit-down restaurant.  I had the Margarita pizza, which turned out to just be a cheese pizza, but it was amazing.  The crust was thin, the sauce was flavorful, and the cheese was perfect.  Yum! Halfway through dinner, Mike realized he didn't have his phone on him - his phone that had our taxi driver's number on it.  We ended up having Annie (who was almost out of units) text Fred and ask him to go into Mike's room, find his phone, find the taxi driver's number, and then text it back to us.  We used Annie's phone to call him, and all was well.  There were a couple of minutes of mild distress, though. ;)

Once we got home, I talked to Mom on the phone.  It was so good to hear her voice, but it made me realize how little I've told her during these past five weeks.  I have a lot of stories to tell when I get home!

Thursday, July 22, 2010

July 22 - Last Mobile Medical Clinic

Today was my last mobile medical clinic. It was held at Khwamba, which is where my first MMC was - we've come full circle!
Setting up the pharmacy (picture from Mrs. Carmel)

We had a mission team from Arizona with us today, so we had more than enough hands.  There wasn't a lot of work to do, but I still managed to find some.  When we first got there, I helped set up and organize the pharmacy and then relieved Mike at temps later in the morning.  For the rest of the time, I played with kids.  Khwamba has the cutest kids!  We played hand clapping games, played catch with bits of bark and rocks (I declined playing catch with a rabbit pellet :P ) and just sat and sort of talked with each other.  Later in the morning, I was feeling really tired (I'm still kind of sick) so I went outside and sat in the sun.  About five or six kids came and sat with me, not begging to play, but just sitting/snuggling with me.  One little girl laid her head in my lap and I stroked her hair.  At the same time, I had a little girl holding and playing with my other hand, and another one playing with my hair.  It was a special moment. :)
Playing catch with the kids (picture from Mrs. Carmel)

Surrounded by kiddos (picture from Jenna)
Me, Khwamba kids, and Annie (picture from Jenna)

Gerda is leaving tonight to go back home and Danielle and Jenna leave tomorrow morning. Things are winding down around here.